What is hate? or rather who is hate? Is it just an emotion that we mortals feel or is it an entity in itself. Is hate the being who broke us down, who disillusioned and disappointed us to the extent of shattering us into a thousand little pieces? Or is hate the one who took away all our hope, and left us in the proverbial tunnel where the light at the end is a train. Or yet again is hate the one who told us the truth; who shook us up and thrust the bitter truth into our face; who slapped our faces with realizations that we are worthless and not fit to enjoy this world or the next even. Who is hate? Is it just a simple emotion that we feel with an intensity towards something we dislike or is it something more. Or is it just an unwillingness to do something, an excuse to wriggle out of a chore. Or is it a repulsive mask behind which we hide our true feelings, cliched as it sounds?
I looked up the meaning of Hate and the first thing my eyes centred on was the word passionately. It seemed strange to me to see this word here in connection with such a negative word for I've always viewed passion in a very positive and strong light. I don't know why but somehow i revere this word: passion. To me it denotes something that is undescribeable, a feeling so strong so intense so powerful that it is unmatchable. Even till today I've yet to really use this word in its true glory, where this word would unleash its fervor and breakout in a paraoxysm of rapture in the mind of the reader.
But when i think about it can you really feel that passion for someone and say its hatred? Hate is never completely hate until you stop feeling even a teeny-weeny bit of any other positive emotion for that being. Hate, I believe, is too strong a word to just throw away in any context. In the normal usage of this word, it is initiated typically by anger, or disappointment, or the need to hide behind a mask.
We hear so many true stories of years of hatred dissolved in a moment of helplessness. But was it really hatred? or was it just some sort of a way to keep your distance, to erect barriers between yourself and the ''hated''. Are we humans actually capable of hating each other? Is it just another of our socially-bred etiquettes of survival? Is it all a farce?
I'm still searching for my answers...

7 comments:

You know wat, hatred is the exact opposite of love. Therefore, we can only hate someone when that person has a direct clash with the person or thing we love. And i'm not talking about the ainwaeen love, i'm talkin about true love, which so few of us have experienced. Therefore, hatred cannot exist without love. As long as a person's true love isn't hurt, he/she doesn't learn to hate. But even then, i doubt the fact that complete hatred actually exists in normal human beings. No matter what happens. Therefore, its actually not the exact opposite of love maybe. Its not equal in magnitude to true love maybe. But then does true love really exist?

March 7, 2008 at 8:56 AM  

the saying that hatred is the exact opp of love is bull...u cannot hate the person u once loved and u just cannot stop loving someone...and im not just talking abt the girl-boy kind of love but every kind of love that exists in this world...we just try to hide our feelings from ourselves as well as that person and when we get successful in hiding those feelings even from our very ownselves we have to account for their absence and soo the word hate comes in...

March 7, 2008 at 9:16 AM  

girl you have asked tooo many questions :P

hate for one is not a mask we wear to hide smth else.
i think its one emotion, though negative but smth that comes out genuinely.
and interestingly, theres a pair of everything with love,hate is bound to come, khushi aur gham, life/death, day n night. so hate is just there so we wud know what it feels like to love.

March 7, 2008 at 9:53 AM  

I wanna ask you one question too Mahru, how is it that you always succeed in deducing the only wrong interpretation of watever i say? Pehle pura comment paro and btw who instigated you to such a level that you now wanna look for a meaning of hatred and then go on doing it?

March 7, 2008 at 11:45 AM  

idiot i wasn't deducing anything frm ur comment...i was just stating wat i think....
and abt who instigated me into such a level of thinkin...welll thats for me to know and to find out ;p

March 8, 2008 at 6:49 AM  

oh God

March 8, 2008 at 7:54 AM  

have u guessed mubi?? =P

March 9, 2008 at 5:42 AM  

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