This is a tribute tag to all the women bloggers out there in the big wide world of blogosphere. The authorship of this poem is controversial; its either written by Maya Angelou or by Pamela Satran. I start this tag so that all us gurlz out there can read it, paste it on our blogs, think back and feel good about ourselves. Guys can also paste it onto ur blog if u really want to, no problemo... so here goes...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a youth she’s content to leave behind….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a feeling of control over her destiny.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to fall in love without losing herself.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
a month…and a year…

I tag Mubi, A.joe, Lost in Rome, Lunatic, Seher dot com, M.h.a, Sami and duffer...

11 comments:

hmmm... interestin take... i don't know if i will take up this tag or not... coz most people will label me sexist... if i do ...

what i would like to know is... why ????

November 21, 2008 at 5:13 AM  

i dunno abt the sexist labeling thingy but i just tagged u to spread this poem...u dun have to if u dun want to...

and what why??

November 21, 2008 at 10:23 AM  

why wud i b labelled sexist... !!!

lol.. its okay :) !

November 21, 2008 at 11:54 AM  

being labeled sexist is good smacula :p:p:p:p


o finally summer you did it :D:D:D:D:D

November 22, 2008 at 5:27 AM  

im still confused...u sed u wud be labeled a sexist and u want to know y do u think ud be labeled a sexist??

November 22, 2008 at 10:33 AM  

no its not.. well it is if you are... but if you are not... why wud u wanna b labbelled that... !!!

cutee my point was... if a guy posts somthin that is good about women... women come shoutin at him... why !!! thinkin he is being sexist and all... dats da why... i hav experienced it a bit too much in my life !!!

November 22, 2008 at 4:09 PM  

im even more confused now :s

November 23, 2008 at 3:46 AM  

lol don worry :)

my brain is on a different plane talkin nonsense :D

November 23, 2008 at 4:26 AM  

lol u think :P

November 23, 2008 at 5:11 AM  

intereting,thoughtfull:many..... focus on finding the right person than on being the right person!

November 23, 2008 at 10:13 PM  

lol this is in case that "right person" turns out wrong!!
anyways...its also to impress on my fellow species to becum a lil more independent :P

November 26, 2008 at 2:53 AM  

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