Friends



I always take my rings off in class whenever i am bored and just play with them, making weird shapes or planting them strategically on top of one another just to ease my boredom. Today, though a certain shape took up a certain meaning or maybe my mind just put a different perspective on it. So out of my five rings i made a friends star. These five rings represent me and my four friends in college; Ami, Mubi, Zd, Hina & me. We are all quite different from each other and sometimes i think we r the weirdest group in the college but we still stick together. I'm not good at writing all this cheesy stuff but sometimes we all have to do things that we arnt good at so here goes.
Guys i know we fight like on the smallest of issues and blow it out of proportion and take it to a completely different level. I know that we say the harshest of things to each other and really hurt each other really really bad and I know at those times we even feel like why the hell are we still friends coz its the same thing that happens over and over again each time we fight. But yar i also know that we still make up and we still are together no matter what. We still have more memories of laughter and fun than of fights. We may be complete opposites but we still complement each other. And its only being together that we complete the star of our friendship.
So, all i wanna say to u guys is that lets just be together no matter what.
My messages to my friends:
Mubi:
We fight but we still make up and whatever we say when we r angry u know we don't mean it!
Ami:
Ohk ohk i'm a drama queen! happy now ? :D
Zd:
Ur a lota!
Hina:
Miss u man!



oh and btw guys hanging up is not an option. We dun never ever ever hang up on friends , it just makes matters worse!

P.S. this is my allergy writing not me :D

52 comments:

aaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww :D

i miss my uni mates now :(

September 26, 2008 at 5:27 AM  

Mission partly-accomplished!
one down more to go :D

September 26, 2008 at 5:28 AM  

btw... deres a msg for u on my blog :P

September 26, 2008 at 5:30 AM  

lol just read it and replied as well :D

September 26, 2008 at 5:33 AM  

so did i :P

tum ne waisay hassan ko maar perwa k hi chorna hia :P

September 26, 2008 at 5:38 AM  

lol...how did u figure that out?? and here i was thinking im soo subtly evil :D:D

September 26, 2008 at 5:41 AM  

anybody with a couple of EEs in their name has to be evil :P

(e.g... reema... meera... zardaree :P)

September 26, 2008 at 5:47 AM  

:( u just made my day...wat a comparison :'(
i never thought of that but see im evil in a good sense na... i think evil for only my friends so thts not the same thing :D

September 26, 2008 at 5:49 AM  

دوست ہوتے ہی اس لیے ہیں
لڑایاں کرنے کے لیے
برا بھلا کہنے کے لیے
پنگے لینے کے لیے
اور پھر
ہنسنے کے لیے
:D :D :D

September 26, 2008 at 5:53 AM  

@ d4duffer
lol very true!

September 26, 2008 at 5:55 AM  

yar duffer bhai aap k pass nastaliq font nai hai... dis one gives me a headache :(

(coming from a guy who has worked on millat.com)

September 26, 2008 at 5:57 AM  

wats nastaliq?? :s

September 26, 2008 at 6:16 AM  

yar its da standard font jis mai sara urdu text hota hai like in our urdu books novels etc... its so much easier to read then this arabic font!

September 26, 2008 at 6:29 AM  

ohh rytt!!
u guys are seriously giving me a complex :(
to think i was actually proud of my computer handicap once :D

September 26, 2008 at 6:35 AM  

i dont think this is a computer handicap... plus also i don think many people would know of urdu fonts... i only know of it bcz of my online urdu newspaper experience!

September 26, 2008 at 6:36 AM  

show off !! :P:P:P

September 26, 2008 at 6:36 AM  

whats to show off in dat... pray i ask?

September 26, 2008 at 6:39 AM  

i added more pics to the blog :D
mujhe kya pata mera otu kehnay ko ji chah raha tha tou keh diya :D:D:D:D

September 26, 2008 at 6:41 AM  

@ the convo so far
o great! *rolls eyes*

@ pics
wow, your rings so much better

@your concept
wow, loved it, the stars and the ring *sniff sniff* i might need a hanki,someone?

@ post
: / blah!

September 26, 2008 at 7:58 AM  

mubi... blow it loud n blow it proud :P

September 26, 2008 at 8:06 AM  

Hina said...
um what m i suppose to say i m touched!!!!urgh that too cheesy but i guess company matters rukh lolzzzzz n y have u written miss u m i dead or invisible??????

September 26, 2008 at 8:44 AM  

lol wat??

September 27, 2008 at 2:39 AM  

Hmmmmm.....what happens..when you keep on wearing the rings for a long long time, and one day you notice that they wont come off...your fingers have grown and the rings seem to be stuck..They start to hurt and cause you a great deal of distress removing them...even what if you do not want to get them off what if one ring breaks? Suddenly feel emptiness..whether its one finger or all of them...you keep on thinking, that you are missing something, that you are incomplete ...even the weight of your hand starts to feels odd..and it starts making you uncomfortable???
What then!!!

September 28, 2008 at 5:56 AM  

thats when she looks in the mirror and wonders who she is... lol

September 28, 2008 at 6:36 AM  

@ sami
Lmao

@ chaos...
well i cant really control my future...but i sure can live every minute i am wearing those rings...if one of them breaks off, i'll try to get it repaired if it duznt then i guess we all move on even with that uncomfortable feeling of missing sth and that slowly goes away with time... and if they start closing in on me than i simply turn off my cell and turn into a hermit...but seriously i dun think friends who have cum so close together as to make this friendship ring wud actually make u want to take them off and cause u hurt and distress...petty fights are very common everywhere but they are just included in the entire package...take it or leave it...and if they do cause u all that much distress then i guess they arnt worth being on ur finger in the first plc...

September 28, 2008 at 7:06 AM  

i think he was talkin abt da rings n not ur friends!

September 28, 2008 at 7:11 AM  

Lol...aint that simple..
You just cant tell how the ring would feel unless you try it on!..What if its not like what it looks on the outside?
what if its so tight that it leaves a permanent mark on Ur finger!

September 28, 2008 at 7:11 AM  

in bhai ki lagta hai jewellary shop hai.. dekhna 2-4 comments k baad bataayain gay k agli rings in say lain... na ungli pe nishan... na wazzan... rang bi pakka... daam bi acha... :O

September 28, 2008 at 7:14 AM  

@ sami
lol...the rings are my friends :P
*rolling eyes* see u missed the point again :D:D:D:D:D

@chaos
its not that way at all and u know that...they dun enter the circle just when u meet them...its only after a time that they finally turn into a ring and by then ur sure that even if u dunno them perfectly uve a pretty good idea...

September 28, 2008 at 7:20 AM  

Hahah~
Rings ko dil pe nahi lena thaa..lol
Ap ka chapal ka business hai to rings ke jaga chapal ker letay hain!!
:D

September 28, 2008 at 7:21 AM  

How sure can you be....perceptions can be deceiving....
Wolf in a sheep's clothing!!

September 28, 2008 at 7:23 AM  

well then if ur wrong u just file it away in ur drawer labelled "experiences" and promise urself to do better next time

September 28, 2008 at 7:25 AM  

Hahahaha...Uve simplified simplicity to a whole new level...
I dont think it would be such a piece of cake!!

September 28, 2008 at 7:28 AM  

its not but wats the use of complicating sth which is already soo very complicated in the first place...it helps to keep a really simplified picture in mind even if it duznt really work...

September 28, 2008 at 7:33 AM  

I beg to disagree..
You lose the true essence of it!

September 28, 2008 at 7:37 AM  

no u don't...the rue essence keeps bumping u in the nose all the time so u cant actually lose it but just to placate ur mind abt the next time u close that drawer and make false promises

September 28, 2008 at 7:48 AM  

Till when would you fake it?

September 28, 2008 at 8:01 AM  

we r humans...atleast u are...u guys have copyrights on fooling urself everytime u want to...and faking it comeon thats child play :D

September 28, 2008 at 8:03 AM  

:/

and!
word veri: demmzmmy

what are these ppl thinking?

September 28, 2008 at 8:05 AM  

lol sounds like themz a mummy

September 28, 2008 at 8:09 AM  

Lol...where are you?
Disneyland p::

September 28, 2008 at 8:13 AM  

Humans and their emotional selves are surprisingly elastic. No matter how long you wear a ring, you can take it off, wait for sometime and your finger will be back to normal. Even the marks would be gone after sometime. Surprising but true. Besides, life doesn't give you the luxury of holding your hands in mid air and weighing them. There's so much going on in the world, ideally, personal sacrifices should be considered normal.

September 28, 2008 at 8:28 AM  

i want to...i wanna meet cinderella and beauty and snow white and grumpy and doc and mickey mouse and mulan and goofy and how can i forget bugs bunny :D

September 28, 2008 at 8:29 AM  

@ mha
i agree...today personal sacrifices are a must if u want to survive... nobody cares what u have to go thru to achieve a certain sthg just as long as u get there in the end...being a martyr duznt enamor u to anyone today

September 28, 2008 at 8:34 AM  

In theory maybe...but not in reality..
Do you always believe what you see?
Is it that easy to penetrate into the human mind and understand the intricate emotions....
And life is what you make of it..Opportunities vary from person to person...Its how you look at the glass!!
Going with the flow is easy...but is it the only option!!

September 28, 2008 at 8:44 AM  

what i wud really like to know, if anyone is still visiting this post, is that y has no one commented on my photoz and the concept behind them except for mubi that is...:S

September 29, 2008 at 7:37 AM  

its a bit cheesy and so not rukh .. i mean who r u kiddin it is vey cheesy .. so these pictures were wht u were makin on friday in miss nadia's class and i was like think wht she was doin but i was so angry tht i didnt mind askin .. hmm ppl who have taken this convo to the jewellery wala and shoes waley ki dukaaan are totally unaware of the history behind this post on rukh's blog.. ohh i love ur rings u can where em like pheobe in friends did... man she was soo cool ... khair i totally get wht u r tryin to get across ..i love the bit where u said ur friends are different n God knws how they get along .. n remember in class today when i wanted u to jump down the stairs and blame urself, hahahah .. zahra said their are oher motives behind this blend of diversified friend... *suspicious look* mubi n rukh wht r those motives... may be she wants to kill u both and run away with ur collection of multi colored pens.... wicked women zara n she was lookin white as a sheet or more like ghost today ... evil zahra today ...

September 29, 2008 at 8:03 AM  

LOL aamiii!
:D :D
so someone's back!
i agree with all you said ahem ahem excluding the pics wala part

as for zahra m just shocked :p
though i still dont agree on the ghost blah *thinking* hmm

September 29, 2008 at 9:19 AM  

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September 29, 2008 at 9:21 AM  

ooooo i did ur 50th comment *dancing around with joy*
o my o my o my...do i get something good? :D :D :D

September 29, 2008 at 9:22 AM  

OKaayy the deleted comment was mine *pouty* 50th that is!

@ rukh
m sorry to say but ppl(excluding me of course) on ur blog, who are too eager to comment are just too *blah8 in themselves :p :p
*evil grin*

September 29, 2008 at 9:30 AM  

Lol...We discussed the concept..didn't we?
I am telling you its all about different perceptions and frequencies!!
What are u supposed to do?

September 30, 2008 at 2:29 AM  

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