Scattered Aurora

My first post of the new year...weeeeeee!!
i think its about time i wished all those poor readers who do mistakenly stumble on this idle blog from time to time and see no significant change to the number of posts...so everybody a very happy new year and i hope that for you this year brings more constructively time-consuming ventures which limit your visits to my mostly inactive blog :P
ahhh just kidding sometimes my sarcastic humor gets the best of me even!!
Anywho this post is solely dedicated to three people:
1. mubi coz she wants to dissect the new template of my blog...
2. kitten coz he believes that if i start blogging again i might visit his blog more often (its purely altruistic on his part :D)
3. and lastly bunny coz he is the only reason i have to fall down to this level of blogging-blackmail so that he finally completes my new template...
So i got a new template and although its quite different from the one i actually wanted but it serves the purpose for the time being...i actually choose it coz my name originates from this templates name :D
(A more random post i have yet to produce)

Sometimes the hardest path isn't the right one...sometimes the toughest choice isn't the right one...

This is a tribute tag to all the women bloggers out there in the big wide world of blogosphere. The authorship of this poem is controversial; its either written by Maya Angelou or by Pamela Satran. I start this tag so that all us gurlz out there can read it, paste it on our blogs, think back and feel good about ourselves. Guys can also paste it onto ur blog if u really want to, no problemo... so here goes...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a youth she’s content to leave behind….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a feeling of control over her destiny.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to fall in love without losing herself.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
a month…and a year…

I tag Mubi, A.joe, Lost in Rome, Lunatic, Seher dot com, M.h.a, Sami and duffer...

Even in our moments of greatest achievement, or greatest success, Nemesis lurks, waiting to remind us that we are only human and very vulnerable. Does that sound like I'm killing Hope or just issuing caution?

A smile can hide tears

A mask can hide pain

A blank face can hide an aching numbness